June 14, 2010

Hoi Nederlands!

I came back to Netherlands in total relief from the intense dramatic atmosphere back there. People are just crazy! I would safely conclude that it’s a cultural thing where simple things tends to be complicated by human beings ourselves. Anyway, I stepped off the train 7am early in the morning, and bogged down by my 17KG backpack and 8KG hand luggage. The chilly breeze at 16 degrees and beautiful sun were there welcoming me with such grace. The whole city was also invaded by orange flags that I had no clue what it was about.

“ It probably is one of the many carnivals they have again…” I thought of that naturally since the Dutch know how to party so well.

Then as I was heading on the tram back home, again, I saw concert props being set up close to my place with ferris wheel operating in the distance by the harbor.

“Apa ni…concerts again? That’s why I love this country sooo much.”

A month ago, the harbor played host to North Sea Regata Concert, a tribute to a sailing competition kicking off that weekend. I wasn’t there, but I didn’t have to be there anyway. The music was so loud that I could hear it from my apartment located 5 minutes walk away from the concert. On the other hand, I was in fact busy hosting dinner for friends, as usual.

Bah. Back to the story. There’s no story. I just want to ramble.

After crashing a stranger’s party, I headed on my bicycle that Saturday night through the eerie woods. I kept my eyes straight not straying my gaze into the darkness. What a habit I have after growing up in a bedroom facing a graveyard with mysterious oil lamps. It was so cold, as opposed to the pleasant weather during the day, that it drove me cycling like a robot going haywire to get home as soon as possible. Then I had a flashback of my day.

- Woke up at 5am and had my 4 hours exam in Utrecht
- Came home in the afternoon to clean my apartment
- Had friends over after their afternoon by the beach
- Crashed a party by accident – the place was so far away and the people were uptight. I brought in spices!

- Dropped by my friend’s new apartment to wait for them getting ready for Gay Parade after-party. I was not in the VIP list due to my friend having only few free tickets...How is this possible? Joss, you need to reflect :p
- I bailed and turned in for the day and headed home.
- Then, this flashback happened.

As a result, I love Netherlands even more because things I did up there are usually what I would do over a weekend back in Malaysia. The transportation system and distance between places were not as flexible as it is over here for me to go to so many places in a day. Also, how could I have crashed people’s parties? Gay Parade party? I probably had to sneak through some Fridae dudes so that I can join some orgy parties somewhere. Even if I got a Fridae dude friend, I might be stopped by police for summons or bribes due to drinking and driving, whichever come first.

At that moment, all I had to do was cycling slowly, passing by the greenery, enjoying the breeze and my beautiful ride home.



Then, my friends told me, it’s world cup season, thus the orange flags and hyper fans everywhere. Also, it’s vlaggetjesdag, thus the concerts! I’ll write about that separately because it’s quite a unique festival that I want to go next year!!

June 9, 2010

Declutter

As much as I was trapped in a whirlwind of mind-storm after being overloaded with excessive information, I'm glad that I came across this little anecdote that helped me to move on immediately.



In ancient Greece (469 - 399 BC), Socrates was widely lauded for his wisdom. One day the great philosopher came upon an acquaintance who ran up to him excitedly and said, "Socrates, do you know what I just heard about one of your students?"

"Wait a moment," Socrates replied. "Before you tell me I'd like you to pass a little test. It's called the Test of Three."

"Test of Three?"

"That's right," Socrates continued. "Before you talk to me about my student let's take a moment to test what you're going to say. The first test is Truth. Have you made absolutely sure that what you are about to tell me is true?"

"No," the man said, "actually I just heard about It."

"All right," said Socrates. "So you don't really know if it's true or not. Now let's try the second test, the test of Goodness: Is what you are about to tell me about my student something good?"

"No, on the contrary..."

"So," Socrates continued, "you want to tell me something bad about him even though you're not certain it's true?"

The man shrugged, a little embarrassed.

Socrates continued. "You may still pass though, because there is a third test - the filter of Usefulness. Is what you want to tell me about my student going to be useful to me?"

"No, not really."

"Well," concluded Socrates, "if what you want to tell me is neither True nor Good nor even Useful, why tell it to me at all?"

The man was defeated and ashamed.
So, are you sure that the information you got today is true, good and useful to keep in mind? If not, why not stop the passing on of such information so that the world has less clutter that does no good?

May 24, 2010

What can basil do ?



My flatmate bought a pot of basil and she's been watering it everyday. I tell you, this plant is a demanding monster because it needs huge amount of water everyday to sustain its hue of pretty green on its leaves. That doesn't come cheap - for remembering this task before either one of us head off to work.



Then I thought - what can I cook out of it? * blank *
Usually, my first inspiration is caramelized onions and it's been a useful stepping stone to whatever dish I'll end of preparing in the end.




For example, basil salad with parmesan. This is delicious, especially added with cherry tomatoes later on.



Basil salad also serves as great side dish for roasted rosemary chicken.




I suppose being in a country where fresh food is sold in the market, and well preserved in the cold weather did help me to fall in love with cooking even more.



Basil, oh, basil. I'll think of another way of eating you tonight.

May 4, 2010

My parents were awesome

Sometimes, when I'm home sick, I will drop by this place, reminiscing on people's parents, and let my mind wandering how my parents could have looked like 50 years ago.

How's your day dream like?



The Awesome Site

May 2, 2010

Facebook-less - Cleanse & deactivate !

27 April 2010 2am in the cold morning, I officially removed my profile from Facebook ! At the same time, I made a brief record of the tedious process I went through get myself clean.

- Removed 57 photo albums and 6 video I posted
- Removed 2 Pages I administered
- Removed close to 400 photo tags and 8 video tags
- Deleted one by one of all 450 ++ friends
- Unchecked all control settings related to privacy control
- Change all privacy settings with View rights to "Only Me"
- Left all 89 groups I joined
- Removed some pages I "liked"
- Removed personal details, left my company's Network
- Renamed myself from Farg Bacebook -> No Bacefook
- And ... there you go - Deactivate Account and give a crappy reason and persist on deactivation despite the tricky pop ups from Facebook.

There are some steps listed above that might appear unnecessary. However, working all my life in IT industry, I do not trust Facebook for really deactivating my account in all databases. So, before I deactivated my account, I had to be sure by cleaning up my profile and ensuring there is no content left in it - no friends, no photos, no videos, nothing posted, no tags. Neither am I sure that my face in some friends' photos will still be tagged with the hideous name that I have changed my profile name to. So, all is clean.

Gosh, my social media footprint is shockingly scary.

Facebook addicts seem to live in a totally different world, speaking FBian lingo, engaging in FB activities. Unfortunately, that is not the life I want to live in.

Now, it's time for a picnic, a real picnic. :)